Life is not “fake it ’til you make it.” God doesn’t ask us to pretend. It’s about seeing the world (and most importantly people) through God’s eyes. Anger, pain and anxiety can be like blinders used on horses. You only see what’s in front of you. So either turn your head or take the blinders off for a more complete view. Don’t insist that the only thing that exists is what you see or feel in that moment. Becoming a woman of noble character means having the discipline to look to God for the truth.